August · 2023
Knowing Yourself and Understanding Money
The Gist
August 前八节细读 The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People，从 paradigm、主动选择和以终为始，一路进入双赢、同理倾听、协同与自我更新；随后用 The Road to Character 把效率重新放回品格。
最后六节转向 The Psychology of Money 和 Die with Zero。金钱不只是计算题，也由经历、风险、时间、欲望与“足够”塑造。整月把习惯、品格和金钱放在一起，讨论怎样把有限的时间用在真正重视的人与体验上。
- 从 paradigm 开始检查自己怎样看世界，再谈习惯和效率。
- 主动选择、以终为始和 Quadrant II 把注意力放回重要的人与事。
- 成熟同时需要勇气与体谅；倾听是先接住逻辑和情绪，再表达自己。
- 品格不是效率的装饰，而是决定选择能否长期成立的内在尺度。
- 财富、时间和体验要一起计算；别用别人的经历和目标替自己定义“足够”。
Xiaoetong course guide
Replay Timeline
The 7 Habits
8 sessions- Day 01Paradigm and Principle：改变不是靠一本书，而从看见自己的视角开始84 min Replay Replay
- Day 02Be Proactive：在刺激与反应之间，为自己的选择负责78 min Replay Replay
- Day 03Rescripting：以终为始，重写旧脚本并选择想成为的人84 min Replay Replay
- Day 04Quadrant II：把重要但不紧急的事情放回生活中心70 min Replay Replay
- Day 05Courage and Consideration：用勇气与体谅建立真正的双赢74 min Replay Replay
- Day 06Empathic Listening：先理解对方的逻辑与情绪，再争取被理解80 min Replay Replay
- Day 07The 3rd Alternative：放下防御，寻找超越你我方案的协同86 min Replay Replay
- Day 08Sharpen the Saw：持续更新自己，让人生 live in crescendo96 min Replay Replay
Character
1 sessions- Day 09The Road to Character：从履历美德转向品格、谦逊与内在尺度83 min Replay Replay
The Psychology of Money
5 sessionsDie with Zero
1 sessions- Day 15把钱、时间与体验放在同一张人生资产表里71 min Replay Replay
Individual files 9
Core reading
4 filesDie with Zero203 pages · 3 MBDie with Zero203 pages · 3 MBThe 7 Habits of Highly Effective People498 pages · 16 MBThe 7 Habits of Highly Effective People498 pages · 16 MBThe Psychology of Money253 pages · 3 MBThe Psychology of Money253 pages · 3 MBThe Road to Character346 pages · 3 MBThe Road to Character346 pages · 3 MB
Lesson handouts
5 filesParadigm and Principle - Material88 pages · 8 MBParadigm and Principle - Material88 pages · 8 MBBe Proactive - Material48 pages · 3 MBBe Proactive - Material48 pages · 3 MBRescripting - Material77 pages · 4 MBRescripting - Material77 pages · 4 MBQuadrant II - Material53 pages · 5 MBQuadrant II - Material53 pages · 5 MBBe courageous, be considerate - Material74 pages · 6 MBBe courageous, be considerate - Material74 pages · 6 MB
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